Are You Ready to Attract Your Ideal Type of Man?

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Finding the love of your life is simpler than you think.

Where you are now is perfect. Your soulmate isn’t thinking about your past or your current dating experience.

What this means for you is . . .

You just need to SHOW UP in a way that works.

Doors to Enrollment Close:

You don’t have to be on multiple dating apps, meeting lots of men and going on lots of dates with random men to find the right man.

 It doesn’t have to be complicated, or painful or require a lot of 
your time, energy and resources. 


It's as simple as meeting men, 
going on dates with them and choosing your dual partner.


All you have to do is show up and communicate in the way that 
gets men to pursue and commit to you.

That’s it.

You feel disappointed, frustrated and discouraged by the lack of quality of men you meet. It feels like you’re going in circles and wasting your time on the wrong guys.

You feel overwhelmed, confused and exhausted by the amount of messages and dates that go nowhere.  It feels like you are putting in a lot of effort with little return.

You feel uncertain, doubtful and even scared to start dating again. You feel like you’re not ready, so you avoid putting yourself out there.

If you can see how ANY of these applies to you . . .


. . . most likely you’ve not been dating with personality typing—which is just like “dating blindfolded.”

Say goodbye to “dating blindfolded."

This is a way of searching for love that causes you to struggle and waste time in dating.

It’s based on some of the biggest myths prevalent in society and in the media about how to find love.

It puts you on a path of overwhelm, frustration, confusion and disappointment.

It’s a hidden reason that causes you to feel like a hamster on a wheel.

It causes you emotional pain, and wastes your time, energy and resources on men who can never give you what you need.

It’s what keeps you spending countless hours on dating apps, texting men and going on dates without any results.

It’s what causes you worry, anxiety and self-doubt when you’re lying in bed alone, unable to fall asleep and thinking, “What am I doing wrong?”

It’s what leads you on a vicious cycle of attracting the same wrong types of men . . . repeating old patterns . . . and aimlessly dating without finding true, lasting love.

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“Dating blindfolded” is the reason why smart and successful women like you stay single despite all your hard work.

It falsely assumes that your ability to find love is dependent on obvious things like your time, effort and resources (which you never have enough of), so “dating more,” “dating harder” and “dating longer” become the main strategy. And you probably already know that this isn't a reliable and effective strategy.


Think about it: if it really worked, wouldn’t you (and every single woman who’s been trying hard to find love) already be in a happy relationship by now?


Or are you telling me that you haven’t tried hard enough? 

And if that applies to you, too . . .


Don’t feel bad… It’s not your fault!


If you’re like most single women who haven’t met the right man, chances are you’re “dating blindfolded.”


But that’s okay! It’s what you learned and used . . . until now! 


When “dating blindfolded,” your ability to attract your ideal type of man is dependent on your time and effort. You’re constrained by your external circumstances instead of using a proven process to get what you want.

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And I don’t have to tell you that this creates a constant struggle of guessing, wondering and questioning yourself, men and the dating process itself.

“Will I find the right man?”

“What am I doing wrong?”

“What if it doesn’t work?”

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"Dating blindfolded” creates a constant need for MORE.  A need to get on more apps. A need to meet more men. A need to go on more dates. A need to put more time and effort into getting to know each other—needs that steal your time and keep you busy with dating.


AND, if you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you can relate to how much it causes you to feel overwhelmed, discouraged and exhausted with nothing to show for all your efforts.


Now, if finding the right man seems like looking for a needle in a haystack, then it’s time to say goodbye to “dating blindfolded” so you solve this problem once and for all.

What’s going to happen in your love life when you start using Personality typing to attract your man?

You’re going to quickly discover that Personality typing is the most effective, fastest and easiest way to attract your man.

And not just ANY man but your ideal type of man (“dual partner” in Eniostlyle terms) who’s perfectly compatible with you.

The kind of man who accepts and loves you exactly as you are. And who gives you exactly what you need without you having to ask for it.

If you’re a very busy woman who wants to attract her man fast, you’re about to GET a simple, proven and complete roadmap.

I will give you a PROVEN process to attract your ideal type of man.

I’ve helped HUNDREDS of women find the right man and finally get into a relationship that lasts.


I’ve found the simplest, fastest and surest way to do it so you don’t get into the wrong relationship. 


Proven doesn’t mean spending months messaging men and going on tons of first dates that go nowhere.


Proven doesn’t mean getting into a relationship just based on the initial chemistry that can fade away.

Proven doesn’t mean choosing who to spend the rest of your life with—only to realize later that you aren’t compatible.


Proven means that it works.


Which brings me to this question:


Is compatibility important?


Of course it is.

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Chances are, you’re familiar with the statistics:




of new couples break up within the first year. 

(Stanford Study)

of all marriages in the U.S. end in divorce or separation. 

(WF Lawyers 115 Studies)

The #1 leading reason for divorce is "basic incompatibility." (Institute DFA Research)

Being a smart, successful woman, I know this is no surprise to you.


You may have been a part of some of these statistics yourself, right?


So, would it be valuable to choose a life partner who’s highly compatible with you? 


The answer is YES!

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But . . .


Would you be able to attract him without knowing exactly how? 


Not sure.


So what’s the best way to do it?


Using a proven system that gives you what you DO need to know. . .


Or continuing to date “blindfolded”?

In Love by Design, we remove the “blindfold” so you no longer experience drama and confusion about meeting, dating and communicating with men.

Other Women

Women in Love by Design

Think about and approach dating as something that requires a lot of time and effort.

Approach dating with a few simple and targeted steps with minimum time and effort.


Think finding love is a matter of luck, chance and circumstances.

Think finding love is a matter of the right mindset, strategy and action.


Get stopped by fear of being rejected, criticized and getting hurt.

Know how to manage their mind and don’t get defeated by fear.


Pretend to be someone else in order to be liked by men

Show up in an authentic and unapologetic way


Don’t realize they chose inherently incompatible men

Intentionally choose only compatible types of men


Have doubts, fears and insecurities about choosing the wrong man.

Have clarity, confidence and certainty about choosing the right man


Make the same mistakes without even realizing it.

Are aware of, learn from and avoid making mistakes from the past



Women in Love by Design create their love life by design—their design!

They don’t wait on the sidelines. They take action — the right action!


They don’t go in circles by doing the same old things. They get results by doing new and different things.


They don’t follow general dating advice. They follow personalized dating advice.


They don’t allow circumstances to determine their future love life. They create their future love life now — despite circumstances.

When you remove the “blindfold” by using mindset and personality typing tools, you’ll finally shift from looking for love to actually creating your own love story.

Inside Love by Design, you’ll be able to quickly and easily:

Search, filter and recognize your ideal type of man 

Spark an instant, genuine and lasting attraction

Spot red flags, set boundaries and avoid bad situations

Attract your ideal type of man with less dates, time and effort 

Your love life is too important to leave to chance.

The biggest dating myths actually hurt your ability to love and keep you single.

Myth #1:

ALL men can be categorized as ''right” or ''wrong.”

Truth #1: 

Some personality types of men are inherently compatible with yours. Others aren’t. 

Myth #2:

The same approach will work with any man.

Truth #2: 

The same approach will work with one type but not another.

Myth #3:

“Mr. Perfect” exists. You just have to find him.

Truth #3: 

“Mr. Perfect,” who has a set of strengths and qualities of different personality types, doesn’t exist. 

Myth #4:

Search for a man who’s just like you.

Truth #4: 

Each person is subconsciously looking for their dual partner: someone who is different yet complementary. One partner’s strengths compensate for the weaknesses in the other.

Myth #5:

 You have to do and say the “right things” to attract a man.

Truth #5: 

You can’t attract your ideal type of man by trying someone you aren’t.

You may not even realize that these myths have been keeping you single . . . until now.


And that’s okay.

I’ll give you everything you need to know so that you don’t get confused.


And the easiest way to do that is . . .

 . . . by using Personality typing.


You can learn as much about ANY man within minutes as it would take another woman months!

Imagine how much more clarity, certainty and confidence you’ll have!

You get a highly effective, personalized dating strategy so that you can attract your man with minimum time and effort. 

Imagine how much more enjoyable, easy and fun dating will be when you start using only a few actionable steps that are customized for you.

You remove uncertainty, self-doubt and fears in dating.

imagine how much easier and faster you’ll shift from being single to being in a happy relationship.

So if you want a proven process to attract your ideal type of man faster and easier, then let’s move on.

Polina Solda’s

Love by Design is like nothing else out there.
It’s a complete, proven, step-by-step roadmap to attract your man . . .

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5 Core Training Modules 

By the time you complete these five modules inside Love by Design, you’ll develop the deepest level of understanding and acceptance of yourself and others that will stay with you for the rest of your life. You’ll develop the skill set of meeting, dating, and communicating with men at the mastery level. 

Our Community

This is the place to ask questions, share when you type men you meet, evaluate your dates, and celebrate getting into a relationship. Dive into the learning, connecting, sharing and celebrating in our Love by Design Facebook community every day.

Ask a Coach

Receive one-on-one help as you go through the dating process. Simply submit your questions and coaching requests. You will get personalized coaching tailored specifically for you as often as you need it to meet men, go on dates and choose your dual partner.

Weekly Live Coaching Calls

Get coached personally and learn from watching others get coached to change belief systems, increase your skill set and build confidence. You’ll be coached on personality typing, meeting men, dating, clear communication and choosing the right partner. These calls are packed with value and teach you how to navigate through the process of dating to your relationship effectively and quickly.

The Love by Design Guides

The fastest way to find your man is to know how to find him. My five-step process is laid out in a simple, easy and practical form. It’s in-depth guidance on how to determine anyone’s personality type and customize your dating experience so it works specifically for you. It’s an outlined approach to exactly how to practice clean communication so that your men respond to you, which leads to the next level. You’ll approach dating like an expert and you will have fun!


“My life can be described as ‘before’ and ‘after’ I joined Love by Design and learned Eniostyle. In just a matter of weeks, I’ve been able to understand, get total clarity and find all the answers I’ve been searching for.”

— Georgia

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It’s time to shift what’s possible for you in love, just like these Love by Design members . . .

When you date with the Love by Design process, you won’t ask:

     “Where do I meet men?”

     “How do I get him to ask me out?” 

     “Why do men ghost and disappear?”


What you will want to know is:

     “Is he my dual type?” 

     “Do I want to go on another date with him?” 

     “Who do I choose as my relationship partner?”

You will think differently. You will put energy into different things. 

You will take different actions.

And when you get started with the Love by Design process, you’ll also get help with:

Managing your thoughts and emotions when you put yourself out there

Building self-confidence so that you start attracting higher quality men

Evaluating your dates so that you’ll always know exactly what works and how you can adjust

In the last 12 years, my team and I have helped hundreds of women find love. We know the exact struggles you face, where you get stuck and what you need to stay on track and get results.

When you enroll in Love by Design, you’ll receive instant access to the entire program.

And your result is guaranteed. You either attract your man or we give you  back your entire investment. It’s that simple.



Module #1:
Understand Types

The seven psychology-backed criteria to determine anyone’s type

Core values, strengths and weaknesses, needs and desires of each type

How to discover, align and express yourself authentically in your type

How to recognize compatible and incompatible types of men for you

How to spot red flags that show men who aren’t a good fit for you


“I uncovered the exact reasons why I struggled in my past relationships, how I got into ‘the middle type’ and what kind of man is ideal for me. I realized that there’s nothing wrong with me and some men are simply incompatible with me. I learned to ‘type’ men, which is fascinating. And, I ‘returned to myself’ by learning my type and developing a new relationship with myself. Now I understand, accept and love myself unconditionally, 100%.”

— Mary


Module #2:
Meet Men

The three simple steps to meeting men online or in real life

How to spark an instant and lasting attraction with men

Where and how to meet men without trying hard

How to position yourself as a Chooser who attracts men

How to flirt with men in a natural, easy and safe way


“The fact that I don’t need to go on a bunch of dates with a bunch of men is such a RELIEF! As a single mom working a full-time job, being able to date less and meet the right man for me is EVERYTHING. I can actually do it.”

— Krishna


“What I discovered in this one module has rocked my world. For years I’ve heard people talk about attraction and energy vibration. But no one ever told me how attraction between different personality types works, and what I needed to do differently to attract not just any man, but specifically my ideal partner.”

— Lily

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“Because I had some negative and painful experiences in the past, 

I was scared to flirt and be playful with men. It sounds unbelievable, but I’m a ‘man magnet’ now. I can walk down the street and get a man I’m interested in to smile back at me and start talking with me.“

— Jenna

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Module #3:
Communicate with
a Clear Mind

How to communicate without drama or negative emotions

How to express your needs, wants and desires in an authentic way

How to create emotional intimacy and trust for a deeper connection

How to have uncomfortable conversations without self-sabotaging

How to influence men so they respond to you in the way you want


“This module is a goldmine! Before Love by Design, I was unsure, uncertain and afraid to say something ‘wrong,’ so I would often hold back and say nothing. I can’t thank Polina enough because now I know exactly what to say to any type of man in ANY situation from a place of emotional openness, maturity and intimacy. She’s given me my voice back! As someone who was in abusive relationships in the past, I feel like a different woman. Thank you, Polina.”

— Jessica


Module #4:
Date Men

How to shift from texting to actual dates, without wasting time

How to go on fewer yet higher quality dates with compatible men

How to show up on your dates without pushing an agenda

The process that makes your dates better and leads to the next level

What to do in-between your dates so men continue to pursue you


“After joining Love by Design, I met my ideal dual partner and we instantly connected. There were no red flags. It’s been magical. It’s such an incredible feeling to be in this kind of dual relationship. I wish every woman could experience the same kind of ease.”

— Ellen


Module #5:
Choose Your Dual Partner

The process that makes your dual type fall in love with you and want to commit

The most common reasons men don’t commit and how to overcome them

How to quickly inspire your dual type to ask you to become exclusive

How to choose your ideal dual partner without fear of making a mistake

How to transition from being single to being in a relationship

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“I wish someone had told me many years ago about Eniostyle! A mistake I didn’t even realize I was making was choosing men who weren’t compatible with me. I spent years bouncing from one dysfunctional relationship to the next, turning myself into a pretzel and desperately trying to make it work.

Now I have the power to choose my ideal partner who’s going to accept, value and love me exactly as I am..”

— Nora

By the end of these 5 Core Modules, you’ll have everything you need to attract your ideal type of man.

Become the woman who starts attracting her dream man TODAY!


“Love by Design and personality typing opened my eyes to a whole new reality—where dating is transparent, simple and makes sense. I love Polina’s metaphor about taking the blindfold off. That’s exactly what happened. I can see clearly now!”

— Darelle


“Because of Love by Design, I now speak a new language and see people in a new way - through the lens of Eniostyle. I understand the different ‘types’ of people and what motivates them. Knowing to type using Eniostyle has simplified dating but also improved all of my relationships…I understand my family and my boss better too! Thanks to Polina and everyone in her community I can walk through life belonging to an incredible community with whom I speak the same language.”

— Kirstin

What makes Love by Design so EFFECTIVE and a no-brainer to join is that we have the highest success rate of members meeting their ideal types of men (and a money-back guarantee to prove it).

Program Guarantee


You either attract your ideal type of man with our Love by Design process,  or we give back your entire investment.

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Here’s why it works for every woman:


No matter your personal background, past relationships or dating experience, Love by Design will give you the tools to meet your man.


That’s because you’ll learn and apply the principles of personality typing and managing your mind that I’ve mastered over the last 12 years of coaching and being in a dual relationship. 


We ONLY focus on what is ESSENTIAL for you to meet your dual partner while helping you manage the mind drama that gets in the way.


We give you UNLIMITED coaching so that you get every bit of personalized guidance to ensure you get the results.

When you join Love by Design . . ..