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If you are a single professional woman and you want to be done with the struggle, fear and frustration of dating . . .

Then it’s time for Eniostyle—the proven personality-typing system for meeting your man without trying hard and wasting time!

Most professional single women looking for love face one major hidden obstacle.

What is it?


Well, before I tell you, let me ask you a question . . .


Which of these apply to you?

You feel disappointed, frustrated and discouraged by the lack of quality of men you meet online. It feels like you’re going in circles and wasting your time on the wrong guys.

You feel overwhelmed, confused and exhausted by the amount of messages and dates that go nowhere.  It feels like you are putting in a lot of effort with little return.

You feel uncertain, doubtful and even scared to start dating again. You feel like you’re not ready, so you avoid putting yourself out there.

If you can see how ANY of these applies to you . . .


. . . It’s because most likely you’ve been operating from the “dating Is hard” mindset.


Most single women who struggle to find love make the mistake of having the “dating is hard” mindset but with this mindset, you’ll just continue to struggle and stay single.

Say goodbye to the “dating is hard” mindset.

It’s a certain way of thinking that causes most women like you to struggle in your search for love.

It’s based on the biggest myths that society, the media and some “dating gurus” are telling you.

It puts you on the path to overwhelm, frustration, confusion and disappointment in dating from the get-go.

It’s a hidden reason that causes you to feel like a hamster on a wheel.

It causes you emotional pain, wasting time, energy and resources on men who can never give you what you need. 

It’s what keeps you spending countless hours on dating apps, texting men and going on dates — without getting into an actual relationship.

It’s what causes you worry, anxiety and self-doubt when you’re lying in bed alone, unable to fall asleep and thinking, “What am I doing wrong?”

It’s what leads you on a vicious cycle of attracting the same wrong types of men . . . repeating old patterns . . . and aimlessly dating without finding true love.

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The “dating is hard” mindset is what keeps you busy dating and staying single. 

It falsely assumes that your ability to find love is dependent on your time and effort (which you never have enough of), so “dating more,” “dating harder” and “dating longer” becomes your main strategy. And I don’t have to tell you that’s a broken strategy.


Think about it: if it really worked, wouldn’t you (and every single woman who’s been trying hard to find love) already be in a happy relationship by now?


Or are you telling me that you haven’t tried hard enough? 

And if that applies to you, too . . .


Don’t feel bad… It’s not your fault!


If you’re like most  single women who struggle to find love, chances are you’re approaching dating from this erroneous “dating is hard” mindset that you learned from others.


But that’s okay! It’s all that you knew . . . until now!


With the “dating is hard” mindset, your ability to attract your ideal type of man is dependent on your time and effort. You’re constrained by your external circumstances instead of taking clear, specific and strategic actions that get you what you want.

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And I don’t have to tell you that it creates a constant struggle of guessing, wondering and doubting yourself—and men.

“Is he the right man?”

“What does he really want?”

“Will this work out?”

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It creates a constant need for MORE.  A need to get on more apps. A need to meet more men. A need to put more time and effort into getting to know each other—needs that steal your time and keep you busy with dating.


AND, if you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you can relate to how much it causes you to feel overwhelmed, discouraged and exhausted with nothing to show for all your efforts.


Now, if attracting your man seems like an “unrealistic dream” or an “impossible goal,” it’s time to say goodbye to the “dating is hard” mindset so you don’t stay single and stuck in the old way of dating.

What’s going to happen in your love life when you start using Eniostyle to attract your man?

You’re going to quickly discover that Eniostyle is the most effective, fastest and easiest way to attract your man.

And not just ANY man but your ideal type of man (“dual partner” in Eniostlyle terms) who’s perfectly compatible with you.

The kind of man who accepts and loves you exactly as you are. And who gives you exactly what you need without you having to ask for it.

If you’re a very busy woman who wants to attract her man fast, you’re about to GET a simple, proven and complete roadmap.

Now, you might be thinking: 

“People have been meeting each other and falling in love forever without Eniostyle. Why do I need it?”

Well, they have. For most, it usually goes like this: two people feel attraction, fall in love and think they’ve found “the One.”


But, as you probably already know from your own experience, it isn’t as simple and easy later on.

Because after the initial chemistry-based attraction fades away within the first year, what are you left with?


How many women do you know that fell madly in love with a man who was wrong for them and had their heart broken?


Which brings me to THIS question:


Is just relying on attraction enough to make one of the most important decisions of your life: who you will spend the rest of your life with?


Of course not.

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Chances are, you’re familiar with the statistics:




of new couples break up within the first year. 

(Stanford Study)

of all marriages in the U.S. end in divorce or separation. 

(WF Lawyers 115 Studies)

The #1 leading reason for divorce is "basic incompatibility." (Institute DFA Research)

Being a smart, successful woman, I know this is no surprise to you.


You’ve probably been a part of some of these statistics yourself, right?


So, do you really need to understand, recognize and choose the most compatible type of man—the One—for you so that you can have a loving relationship that naturally works? 



The answer is YES!

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But . . .


Would you be able to quickly attract the most compatible man with ease and certainly without relying on Eniostyle?


Probably not.


So what’s the BEST way?


To use a proven system to attract your soulmate . . .



Or to continue to do the same things that don’t work? 

A woman using Eniostyle has a very different dating mindset and approach from a woman who isn’t.

Women not using Eniostyle


Women using Eniostyle


Think about and approach dating as something that requires a lot of time and effort

Approach dating with a few simple, specific and strategic steps that attract their ideal type of men with minimum time and effort


Think finding love is a matter of luck, chance and circumstances

Think finding love is a matter of the right mindset, approach and action


Are afraid of being rejected, criticized and getting hurt

Are aware of inherent incompatibility between certain types and simply avoid them


Pretend to be someone else in order to be liked by men

Show up in an authentic and unapologetic way


Don’t realize they chose inherently incompatible men

Intentionally choose only compatible types of men


Have doubts, fears and insecurities about choosing the wrong man.

Have clarity, confidence and certainty about choosing the right man


Keep making the same mistakes without even realizing it

Are aware of, learn from and avoid making mistakes from the past



Women using Eniostyle create their love life by design—their design!

They don’t wait on the sidelines. They take action — the right action!


They don’t go in circles by doing the same old things. They get results by doing new and different things.


They don’t follow generic dating advice. They follow personalized dating advice.


They don’t allow circumstances to determine their future love life. They create their future love life now — despite circumstances.

When you let go of the “dating is hard” mindset by using Eniostyle, you’ll finally shift from searching for love to actually creating your own love story.

Using Eniostyle, you’ll be able to quickly and easily:

Search, filter and recognize your ideal type of man 

Spark an instant, genuine and lasting attraction

Spot red flags, set boundaries and avoid bad situations

Attract your dream man with fewer dates and minimum time and effort

Without using Eniostyle, it’s like being blindfolded and dating “in the dark,” because you don’t know what type of man is in front of you—whether he’s compatible with you, or what it’s going to be like to be with him.

The dating landscape has completely changed in the last few years.

If you don’t know your type . . .


If you don’t know your soulmate’s type . . .


If you don’t know how to find, recognize and attract him . . .

Then it’s going to be very tough to find love.


Your love life is too important to leave to chance.

The biggest dating myths actually hurt your ability to love and keep you single.

Myth #1:

ALL men can be categorized as ''right” or ''wrong.”

Truth #1: 

Specific types are inherently compatible with your type.

Others aren’t.


The REAL truth is that every person is born with a specific set of inherent qualities which make up their personality type.

That’s why it’s a broken strategy to rely on a superficial, simplified categorization of men that makes it very difficult to find your man.


The worst part is that you can spend the rest of your life searching for and getting into relationships with inherently incompatible men.

Myth #2:

The same dating strategy will work with any man.

Truth #2: 

The same strategy will work with one type but not another.


That’s why it’s a “hit or miss” approach that can keep you “in the dark,” never knowing what will work and why.


The worst part is that after a few failures you may start wondering, “What am I doing wrong?” and feel a lack of confidence.

Myth #3:

“Mr. Perfect” exists. You just have to find him.

Truth #3: 

A “perfect man” with all the types’ qualities equally doesn’t exist.


That’s why your “ideal man” list can actually keep you single. It blocks you from connecting with real men and prevents you from choosing the most compatible partner.


The worst part is that you can be searching for “Mr. Perfect” for years (even a lifetime!) without ever finding him.

Myth #4:

Search for a man who’s just like you.

Truth #4: 

You can be with a man of the same type as yours, but something will be missing, which will create challenges in your relationship.


That’s why some couples constantly fight, try to change each other and work hard on their relationships.


The worst part is that while you search for a man of the same type, you miss out on connecting with someone who would be perfect for you.

Myth #5:

You have to do and say certain things to attract a man.

Truth #5: 

You can’t attract your soulmate by trying to do and say things that aren’t aligned with who you really are.


That’s why you can say and do “all the right things” and still not be able to attract the kind of man you want.


The worst part is that you lose the connection to yourself and block any possibility to attract your soulmate.

That’s EXACTLY why I’m giving you the most effective way to attract your man without getting blocked by these myths.
And the best and only PROVEN way to do that is with . . .



You can learn as much about  ANY man within minutes . . .

as it would take a woman months without using Eniostyle!

Imagine how much more clarity, certainty and confidence you’ll have!  

You get a highly effective, personalized dating strategy

so that you can attract your man with a small fraction of time and effort.

Imagine how much more enjoyable, easy and fun dating will be when you start using only proven, actionable steps tailored for you.  What would it do for you and your dating experience?

You remove uncertainty, self-doubt and fears in dating.

imagine how much easier and faster you’ll shift from being single to being in a happy relationship.

It seems like the shortest and fastest solution, doesn’t it?


So if you agree that Eniostyle is the most important thing you need in order to attract your man, then let’s move on.

Polina Solda’s

Love by Design is not a “dating course” like others you may have taken.
It’s a complete, proven, step-by-step roadmap to attract your man . . .
Or your money back!

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7 Core Training Modules 

By the time you complete these modules, you’ll understand and accept yourself and men at a new level. You’ll attract, meet, flirt with and communicate with high-quality compatible men.

10 Live Coaching Calls

Get powerful coaching and guidance so that you can create breakthroughs, increase confidence and take the right action until you attract your man.

Individual Guidance

Receive ongoing individual guidance, feedback and accountability from a Love by Design Guide, so that you feel taken care of every step of the way.

Action Guides

Take immediate action steps so you can get quick, real results in your life.

Private Community

Share, connect with and learn from other members on a day-to-day basis so that you never feel alone, and also make lifelong friends.

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It’s time to shift what’s possible for you in love, just like these Love by Design members . . .

Each core training module contains short videos, audios, transcripts and exercises specifically designed for you to take the right action and make progress so that you get real results (not just learn information).


Most importantly, you get a compass and a map to navigate through the dating process.


You wouldn’t go out boating in the ocean without a compass and a map, would you? Of course not! So, why would you go out without those in dating?


Just follow the proven, simple, personalized steps.


“My life can be described as ‘before’ and ‘after’ I joined Love by Design and learned Eniostyle. In just a matter of weeks, I’ve been able to understand, get total clarity and find all the answers I’ve been searching for.”

— Georgia

See what’s waiting for you inside once you enroll . . .


“Why did he do this?”


“Why did he say that?”

The Secret Key to Understanding Yourself and Any Type of Man

In Module 1 you will access a new, deep and profound level of awareness so that you can gain crystal clarity, understanding and acceptance of yourself and men at a whole new level.

Inside you’ll discover:

The 7-criteria formula to recognize a man’s type in just five minutes so that you avoid wasting time on messaging and meeting the wrong types. 

How to unlock your inherently attractive qualities so that you can become irresistible and desirable to suitable men!


“I uncovered the exact reasons why I struggled in my past relationships, how I got into ‘the middle type’ and what kind of man is ideal for me. I realized that there’s nothing wrong with me and some men are simply incompatible with me. I learned to ‘type’ men, which is fascinating. And, I ‘returned to myself’ by learning my type and developing a new relationship with myself. Now I understand, accept and love myself unconditionally, 100%.”

— Mary

And where would you be if this were your story too?

“Why do I keep attracting low-quality men?”


“How can I attract high-quality men?”

The Secret to Attracting Your Ideal Type of Man

Every woman has the ability to increase the quality of men she attracts.


Some women of all ages, shapes and backgrounds seem to have an invisible power to attract high-quality men.

In Module 2 you will discover and tap into your source of energy and power so that you can increase your energy vibration and the quality of men you attract.

Inside you’ll discover:

The real truth about why men you're attracted to are not attracted to you so that you can shift it with a proven framework once and for all 

How to spark an instant and lasting attraction with your ideal type of man so that his attention, interest and desire grow like magic


“What I discovered in this one module has rocked my world. For years I’ve heard people talk about attraction and energy vibration. But no one ever told me how attraction between different personality types works, and what I needed to do differently to attract not just any man, but specifically my ideal partner.”

— Lily

“Where can I meet high-quality men?”


“How do I meet them?”

The Secret to Meeting Your Ideal Type of Man

Women who meet high-quality men naturally and effortlessly create opportunities and take the right action that works specifically for them.


In Module 3 you will get a personalized strategy for meeting high-quality suitable men in the way that fits your type and lifestyle.

Inside you’ll discover:

Where and how to meet your ideal type of man in places you already go to, with minimum time and effort

How to create opportunities to meet higher quality suitable men and expand your social circle


“The fact that I don’t need to go on a bunch of dates with a bunch of men is such a RELIEF! As a single mom working a full-time job, being able to date less and meet the right man for me is EVERYTHING. I can actually do it.”

— Krishna

“What will he think about me?”


“What if he takes it the wrong way?”

The Secret to Flirting with Any Type of Man

Women who use flirting as a powerful, effective and fun way to spark attraction with men get to choose the best men.


In Module 4, you will get customized flirting strategies that position you as a Chooser so you can easily attract the kind of man you want.

Inside you’ll discover:

How to flirt with men in a confident, comfortable and safe way so that it leads to a deeper attraction and connection.

How to flirt with your ideal type of man on a first date so that you both have such a wonderful time that he asks you out again.


"I always had a subtle fear of unwanted attention from men, so I had a hard time being a flirt. Polina helped me with some strategies to feel safe. Now I’m comfortable around men and having fun flirting! "

— Jodi

“How do I respond to this?”

“What do I say about that?”

The Secret to Communicating with Any Type of Man

Many women struggle to communicate with men effectively at the early stages of dating, which keeps them stuck at the same place.


In Module 5, you will develop the most important skill—communication with men—so that you can successfully move through all the stages of dating towards a relationship.


Inside you’ll discover:

How to authentically and effectively communicate your thoughts and feelings in difficult situations so that you create emotional intimacy and set clear boundaries

How to stop overthinking and overreacting so that you can show up as a confident, high-value woman

Communicating with men might seem overwhelming and time-consuming. That’s what some of our members thought until they used what they learned in this module.


“This module is a goldmine! Before Love by Design, I was unsure, uncertain and afraid to say something ‘wrong,’ so I would often hold back and say nothing. I can’t thank Polina enough because now I know exactly what to say to any type of man in ANY situation from a place of emotional openness, maturity and intimacy. She’s given me my voice back! As someone who was in abusive relationships in the past, I feel like a different woman. Thank you, Polina.”

— Jessica

“How can I get a man I’m attracted to ask me on a date?”


“How can I get him to ask me out again?”

The Secret to Dating Your Ideal Type of Man

Women who date high-quality men position themselves as high-value women and actually enjoy dating.


In Module 6, you will get a personalized, effective and efficient framework so that you can date fewer yet higher quality men without putting in more time and effort.

Inside you’ll discover:

The easiest, fastest and surest 4-step method to date fewer yet higher quality men at your age and location

How to get high-quality men to quickly ask you on an actual date—and actually enjoy your first date.


“After joining Love by Design, I met my ideal dual partner and we instantly connected. There were no red flags. It’s been magical. It’s such an incredible feeling to be in this kind of dual relationship. I wish every woman could experience the same kind of ease.”

— Ellen

“How do I choose the right man?”

“What if I make a mistake?”

The Secret to Choosing Your Ideal Type of Man

The most important decision you can make in dating is choosing the right man for you so that you can create a relationship that lasts.


In Module 7, you’ll get a proven framework for choosing your man with clarity, confidence and ease so that you eliminate any guesswork, uncertainty and fear of making a mistake.

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Inside you’ll discover:

The proven formula to ensure you don’t choose the wrong type of man so you can feel certain about your choice

How to be a Chooser so you can get into a relationship with your dual partner who loves, values and appreciates you

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“I wish someone had told me many years ago about Eniostyle! A mistake I didn’t even realize I was making was choosing men who weren’t compatible with me. I spent years bouncing from one dysfunctional relationship to the next, turning myself into a pretzel and desperately trying to make it work.

Now I have the power to choose my ideal partner who’s going to accept, value and love me exactly as I am..”

— Nora

By the end of these 7 Core Modules, you’ll have completely transformed your mindset, experience and results in dating. 

Become the woman who starts attracting her dream man TODAY!


“Love by Design and personality typing opened my eyes to a whole new reality—where dating is transparent, simple and makes sense. I love Polina’s metaphor about taking the blindfold off. That’s exactly what happened. I can see clearly now!”

— Darelle

Love by Design isn’t just videos and exercises . . .

It also includes




LIVE group coaching sessions with Polina!

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I created Love by Design to be the most effective, fastest and easiest way for you to shift from being single to attracting your soulmate.


And, I’m going to give you the most empowering, supportive and action-oriented program possible.

That’s why Love by Design also includes 10 weeks of live group coaching.


Got a question? Doubts? Fears? Insecurities? Anxiety? Uncertainties? Feel stuck, overwhelmed or lost?


Not clear how to get started? Afraid to put yourself out there? Wonder if you’re moving in the right direction?


We’ve got you covered.


As you take the first step and join Love by Design, you’ll begin to realize that finding love doesn’t have to be overwhelming, confusing and time-consuming because you’ll get the coaching, guidance and support to make it simple, clear and efficient.